Fellowship over fanfare and flourishes
"Good fellowship and friendship are lasting, rational, and manly pleasures." William Wycherley
My wife Leslie and I are great entertainers. We always go the extra mile to make our guests feel special with great food, drink, music, decor, service, and atmosphere. We think it through deliberately whether it is a single guest or several. We do this even outside special occasions, forming and fostering healthy and inviting workplace environments for our small businesses. It is hard work but we know no other way. Following special occasions such as holidays, we find ourselves worn out after all this care and attention. It is a good fatigue having served others.
This year, as always, on the cusp of Christmas, we discussed the businesses Christmas party - how we would accomplish what we always aim to accomplish. This year in particular, we have family assembling from afar. We have added a new business and our pace has not slowed. Our people are tired and while they do enjoy each other's company, we want to assemble them yet honor their family time. "Let's focus on fellowship," I said when we started to 'pile on' in typical Campbell fashion.
That is, indeed, what people in the workplace desire. Yes, the fanfare and flourishes are important. Go the extra mile as we do to add the special touch for your Christmas party and for every workday but don't lose sight of fellowship. Fellowship, according to the Merriam Webster dictionary, is the association and companionship of people who share a common interest or association. This is (or should be) found daily in the place of work. Fostering fellowship through social settings and gatherings - formal and informal, builds trust, the cornerstone of any successful organization.
Create time and space for fellowship, where people can laugh, tell stories, meet family, and socialize. Yes, of course, consider food, music, decor, etc. but focus on that which is most important. Your people will long forget the balloons and music. They will cherish and recall the fellowship.
Make it Personal!
Rob
Rob Campbell